Being miserable or being happy is a choice. Circumstances often play a huge role in the difficulty of making the choice to be happy, but it is still a choice. People need to learn to be happy with what they have in the situations they are in, or make changes to put themselves into better circumstances. Being miserable and making those around you miserable with your misery helps no one and does not help lift you out of your situation. It ONLY makes others want to avoid you, unfriend you or simply limit contact with you. Make the choice to be happy while attempting to make positive changes.
Life is what is happening around you, don't wait for things to get better. Make things better through a good attitude, positive outlook and sometimes just plain hard work. We all have our challenges. Some things are even beyond our control. Health issues, financial issues, disabilities, all contribute to who we are and how we respond to others. Overcoming extreme poverty or a major health crisis isn't always about getting better or finding wealth. Sometimes "overcoming" something is as simple as not allowing whatever challenge or challenges you face over shadow who you are and make you bitter and miserable to be around.
Smile, laugh and work to be a pleasant person. This will encourage others to want to help with difficult situations, draw people into your life when you need them most and can even make you feel better regardless of current circumstances. A smile can bring joy... even to the person who is smiling.
Rantz
Life is what is happening around you, don't wait for things to get better. Make things better through a good attitude, positive outlook and sometimes just plain hard work. We all have our challenges. Some things are even beyond our control. Health issues, financial issues, disabilities, all contribute to who we are and how we respond to others. Overcoming extreme poverty or a major health crisis isn't always about getting better or finding wealth. Sometimes "overcoming" something is as simple as not allowing whatever challenge or challenges you face over shadow who you are and make you bitter and miserable to be around.
Smile, laugh and work to be a pleasant person. This will encourage others to want to help with difficult situations, draw people into your life when you need them most and can even make you feel better regardless of current circumstances. A smile can bring joy... even to the person who is smiling.
Rantz
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